What’s in a Neck – SoS Saturdays

“Your cheeks are lovely with ornaments, your neck with strings of beads.” (Song of Songs 1:10 NASB)

We are eaves dropping on a bit of romance these days on SoS Saturday. We are listening in as the Shepherd King describes maiden fair. Last week we heard Him tell her of how He loved her cheeks as they expressed the depth of her emotion and passion for Him.

Today we overhear His musings about her neck.

So how is it with our maiden? Anytime He is in the room, she turns to see Him, to look Him over, to see what He is doing and with whom He is talking.

Her neck is like a compass turning her head ever to the North.

Additionally, a neck is the most vulnerable feature. Exposing your neck to another is a sign of trust and submission. I trust you not to exploit this weakness, and submit to your will and ability to rule me.

There is a phrase used in the older translations of the Bible, which means obstinate - stiff-necked. It is a neck that is unbending, immovable, unyielding.

So, you see, the neck speaks of your will and submission.

When Jesus looks at us, He considers our neck.

How is your neck? Are you quick to turn toward the sound of His voice? Are you moved by His call on your life? Do you drop those things that would offend Him when your conscience whispers “No”?

Or does Jesus have to battle to get your attention? Are you slow to turn from your own way? Does your heart cry out the anti-Gethsemane prayer – Not Your will but mine!

There is another lesson in the neck though.

Victory is in the turning.

Often, when we Christians do our spiritual accounting, we only count victory as having complete dominance over our sin. I am only victorious in a battle with sin when I no longer even think of committing it.

This could not be further from the truth.

God is pleased with the turn of our neck toward Him. He knows it is a process we must walk through. He understands the weakness of our flesh.

Hey – He throws a party the day you decide to follow Him, at your very first turning. And every turn you make in submission to Him, even a small turn, pleases Him. [Tweet This]

He knows you are struggling with that something today, and sees your desire to be free and follow Him in that area, and He is cheering for you! He hurts with you when you fall and fail, and is there to draw you once again.

Don’t give up in your struggles to live a godly life. I promise He has not given up on you.

BenHope that helps

See you next week.


0 thoughts on “What’s in a Neck – SoS Saturdays

  1. Caddo Veil

    Good reminder message, Ben--for years I lived in defeat because I "couldn't get it all together and perfect right now". When you're walking in His Grace, you can relax--and when you're relaxed, resting in Him, His strength, the process goes much more quickly and smoothly. This I KNOW. God bless you and the fam--love, sis Caddo

      1. Caddo Veil

        I keep forgetting to ask you if you happened to read Ian Webster's post about "Grace" and "Les Miserables"--Wandering Preacher is his blog, if you're unfamiliar--it was a fabulous post, in my opinion!

  2. Debbie

    Mr. Ben . .thank you for the encouragement in this and hope! That He looks for our slightest turns and cheers for us, that those moments count too, not just the complete victory . ..that is so important to remember.
    God bless you and your readiness to look at Him!

  3. Helen Murray

    Thoughtful post. Made me think about necks, and mine in particular. When I'm tense and anxious, or angry, I get neck-ache - the back of my neck and shoulders. it's because I hold it rigid and don't relax. I get relief if I bow my head down low, but sometimes I find I'm putting up with the discomfort for so much longer than I need; if only I'd bow down.
    I'm sure there's a lesson in there for me.
    Thank you.

    1. Ben Nelson

      That is a beautiful lesson - I was so moved by your "healer" story. I have done something similar with the woman with the ointment who Washed Jesus feet, with much less beauty and clarity than you have done.

      Thank you!

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